If you are the sum total of the five people you hang out with most, do the people you have around you now actively support you? Are they helping you achieve what you want to do? Or do you need to make some changes in the people you have allowed into your life? Who are the best people to choose and how do you fire a friend?
Cara Lumen, spiritual philosopher, explorer, and founder of the Deeper Song Community helps us sing a deeper song. In this episode she discusses the specific balance you need to keep among the three types of people you spend the most time with.
In this episode we explore the balanced formula for choosing the people you invest the most time with:
1. One third are people who need your help.
2. One third are friends who support you in your daily life process.
3. One third are people that you can learn from.
Explore the balance of personal friends you have in your life right now and find out how to make more supportive choices.
TO REFLECT ON YOUR DEEPER SONG, CONSIDER:
40 – Who Do You Want to Serve?
39- The Power of Active Listening
28 – How to Walk Beside Someone in Service
27 – Why Have You Been Chosen?
What Do You Save Space for in Your Life?
Balance and the Flow of Living
Mindfulness as a Path to Self-Awareness
How Do You Nurture “Different”